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How to breeze through family formals during the wedding day! Advice from Boise Wedding Photographer Brie Thomason

How can you breeze through the family formal images portion of your wedding day? 

I'm back again with another informational post to help everyone who is actively planning their wedding! This week I want to talk about one of the simplest, yet important ways to help ease wedding day stress.  Family formal images are some of the most important images from your wedding day!  They might not be the images you "ooo" and "awe" about, but you will treasure them in years to come.  For instance,  the image from my wedding that makes me so grateful for is one of my late grandmother with me and my family.  Having her at our wedding was one of the most important things to me, and having that image will always be a treasure. 

Image of my family by Bethany Small Photography 

Image of my family by Bethany Small Photography 

Family formals have a tendency to cause stress for both the bride and groom and the family.  I often describe it as "herding cats".  Typically what happens during the wedding day is that family gets the opportunity to see one another for what could be the first time in a long time.  Conversation flows, drinks flow, and attention spans are often very short.  Couple this with a semi-tight schedule for these particular images, and you can see why the stress adds up.  After 50+ weddings, I have learned how to handle this portion of the day quickly and efficiently, which is why I feel obligated to share some helpful advice! 

First things first, organization is key.  Like most things in life, the more organized you are, the less stress that will follow.  When my clients are one month out from the wedding I ask them to make me a list of all the family formal images they want. I have a template that they follow to make it easier on them.  Essentially, the template goes a little something like this:

Bride + Mom

Bride + Dad

Bride + Mom + Dad

Bride + Sister

Bride + Mom + Dad + Sister 

And so forth.... 

As you can imagine, the list adds up quickly.  I often warn my couples that it takes an average of 2 minutes per image.  Sometimes we can cut this down, but it helps to budget for more time rather than not enough.  

I have my couples prepare that list ahead of time so that I can print it and bring it with me.  I then have my assistant help me by reading off the list and crossing off what images we have done.  This helps us to A) get through the list quickly, and B) not forget anyone!  


My biggest word of advice that I can offer you is to truly consider what images are most important to you.  If you give me a five page list, I can make it happen, but we are going to have to compromise images in some other area.  A five page list will take about one hour to complete. I suggest that if you are fine with it, we take some group images during your reception of some family groups that might not be quite as important as your immediate family (cousins, uncles, aunts, etc.)  We often have some down time during dancing, and this is a great chance to grab some of those group images! 

My second biggest advice that I pass onto my couples is to warn family ahead of time that A) they are in the images, B) where they need to meet, and C) what time we are meeting.  I advise my couples to send a group message one day before the wedding with this information.  It should look something like this:

 "I'm so excited to see you all tomorrow at our wedding! I wanted to give you a heads up that I have included you in our family formal images.  We are meeting at the ceremony venue at the front door at 2pm.  Please arrive a little early, fully dressed, and ready for pictures at this time. My photographer will be running on a tight schedule to get all our images done before the wedding, so your timely arrival will help us greatly! I can't wait for tomorrow!" 

The more specific that you are on time and location will help make things easier on everyone! I have had some groups who have taken to heart all of my advice and the family formals have run quick and smooth and we had extra time to go take more images of just the two of them, which was so exciting!  

Lastly,  there's one more thing that can help make these images go as smoothly as possible.  Family members often like to take their own copies of the group images by using their phones, tablets, or cameras.  I absolutely understand why they want to capture these sweet moments and have no problem with it.  My only request is this: While I am taking the image, I need everyone's eyes on me and focused so that no one is looking away.  Imagine that your aunt is behind me and to the right and your mom thinks she is taking the picture, so she looks over at your aunt, while the rest of you are looking at me.  It can create more of a delay and be difficult for me to get everyone's attention on me.  I would also hate to deliver you an important group image that has someone looking off into the distance, while everyone else is smiling at the camera.  Allow me to take the image with everyone's fully undivided attention and then I will let whomever wants the image to step in my place and take their own.  This way everyone gets a great image and we can keep on chugging along! Don't forget to remind family that they can get a professional quality image from you in digital or print format after the wedding day, so they do not need to stress too much about getting one on their phones (picking up what I'm putting down?? ).  

I hope that this post sparked some ideas for you! As always, if you have any questions about my process as a wedding photographer, please just email me! If you are a current client of mine, we will be going over this in depth together as your wedding approaches! 




Why is light so important? Advice from Boise Wedding Photographer Brie Thomason

Why is light so important? Advice from Boise Wedding Photographer Brie Thomason

You've probably heard me, or another photographer, mention how important that light is for images.  George Eastman, the founder of Kodak, once said, "Light makes photography.  Embrace light. Admire it. Love it. But above all, know light. Know it for all you are worth, and you will know the key to photography." I have always used this quote as a guide for how I approach wedding photography.  It is important for me to be able to know how to create great images regardless if it is sunny, raining, extremely bright, or hardly any light.  I have taken courses upon courses just on light so that I know how to handle every possible situation.  However, it should be noted that I do favor certain light over other light and that is why I am writing this blog post!

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Zach + Kaylee // Lindsay Creek Vineyard Wedding // Boise Wedding Photographer

Zach + Kaylee // Lindsay Creek Vineyard Wedding // Boise Wedding Photographer

Boise wedding photographer, Brie Thomason, traveled to Lewiston to photograph Zach and Kaylee's gorgeous Lindsay Creek Vineyard wedding. 

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Suzannah + Kelly // Boise Engagement Photographer

I'm sitting in my house literally snowed in right now! I always wondered what this would be like and now that it's actually happening I can report that it is very strange! All morning I didn't have internet and my phone was having to be used as an emergency hotspot at our coffee shop, so I spent all morning technology free AND snowed in at the same time! It shouldn't have been a big deal, but I cleaned the house and then felt a little lost.  

I'm happy to report that the internet is back and my phone is back in hand, so my life can resume like normal! Sad, so sad, but so true.  While I cuddle up in my blanket and watch cartoons with my nephew I figured it would be good time to share one of my favorite engagement sessions from this last summer! 

I think it goes without saying that Suzannah and Kelly are one stunning couple! I was instantly excited and inspired when they stepped out of their car dressed in the outfits that they chose! Suzannah's dress is exactly what I would dream that my clients would choose for an outfit for an engagement session.  The color was perfect for the location and her skin tone as well! I've had several clients ask where they can find a similar dress and I have found a similar one here.   

I am so excited to photograph their Boise wedding this summer! We are going to have so much fun together! 



Kyle + Kayla // Big Sky Montana Photographer

Kyle and Kayla were such a blast to photograph! I grew up with Kyle all the way from elementary school, so the amount of inside jokes and memories that we talked about were unbelievable! We went to a really small elementary school so we knew each other really well.  Small world, when Kyle left elementary school he started riding the bus to junior high and rode with my now husband! In fact, the two constantly fought over their rivalry as diehard Yankee and Red Sox fans.  Kyle left Idaho and went on to play college football, where he met his sweetheart, at Rocky Mountain College in Billings, Montana.  Kayla was a star athlete herself, playing basketball for Rocky Mountain! Needless to say, these two are super stars! 

We went for a weekend trip and stayed at their condo in Big Sky, Montana.  If you've never been to Big Sky, you have got to plan a trip! I had heard how gorgeous Montana is, but I was truly blown away when I got to see it myself! I am so excited to say that I will get to photograph their wedding in Montana next summer! It is going to be so gorgeous! 

Enjoy these gorgeous photographs!